3 Questions for Being the Perfect Spouse
Scripture: Submit to one another out of reverence for
Christ. (Ephesians 5:21)
Believe it or not, finding the "perfect" spouse starts
with being the kind of spouse you desire. This week,
we'll focus on looking inward.
1. Am I Becoming the Person God Wants Me to Be?We
should always strive to become more Christlike -- not
a "Christian" in name only, but a true follower of
Jesus. Whether you are new in the faith or have been
following Christ for years, you should always seek to
learn more about our Lord and grow in your love for
him. Submit to the Lordship of Jesus Christ in your
life, and let him make you into the person He wants
you to be, for His glory. (Philippians 1:6)
2. Am I Able to Love and Lead God's Way? (Men)
Husbands are commanded to love their wives "as
Christ loved the church" (Ephesians 5:25-28) --
sacrificially and unselfishly. The only way to do this is
through the power of the Holy Spirit living in us. The
Bible calls husbands to "love their wives as their own
bodies" because "He who loves his wife loves
himself." (Ephesians 5:28) The Bible says "no one ever
hated their own body,but they feed and care for their
body, just as Christ does the Church." (Ephesians
5:29)
3. Am I Able to Submit and respect? (Women)All of us,
men and women, are to submit to each other
(Ephesians 5:21), and ultimately to God. God
specifically calls wives to submit to husbands
(Ephesians 5:22), and respect them (Ephesians 5:33).
God calls husbands to lead. The Bible says "the
husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of
the church" (Ephesians 5:23). That means, as a wife,
you must "submit yourself to your own husbands as
you do to the Lord"
Christ. (Ephesians 5:21)
Believe it or not, finding the "perfect" spouse starts
with being the kind of spouse you desire. This week,
we'll focus on looking inward.
1. Am I Becoming the Person God Wants Me to Be?We
should always strive to become more Christlike -- not
a "Christian" in name only, but a true follower of
Jesus. Whether you are new in the faith or have been
following Christ for years, you should always seek to
learn more about our Lord and grow in your love for
him. Submit to the Lordship of Jesus Christ in your
life, and let him make you into the person He wants
you to be, for His glory. (Philippians 1:6)
2. Am I Able to Love and Lead God's Way? (Men)
Husbands are commanded to love their wives "as
Christ loved the church" (Ephesians 5:25-28) --
sacrificially and unselfishly. The only way to do this is
through the power of the Holy Spirit living in us. The
Bible calls husbands to "love their wives as their own
bodies" because "He who loves his wife loves
himself." (Ephesians 5:28) The Bible says "no one ever
hated their own body,but they feed and care for their
body, just as Christ does the Church." (Ephesians
5:29)
3. Am I Able to Submit and respect? (Women)All of us,
men and women, are to submit to each other
(Ephesians 5:21), and ultimately to God. God
specifically calls wives to submit to husbands
(Ephesians 5:22), and respect them (Ephesians 5:33).
God calls husbands to lead. The Bible says "the
husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of
the church" (Ephesians 5:23). That means, as a wife,
you must "submit yourself to your own husbands as
you do to the Lord"
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